Momentous decisions and the peace of God

How do you make momentous decisions? Decisions about things in your financial sector, relational sector, career sector, and such?

We pray.

How do we know what God wants us to do?

Good question, I think we just don't know till we do know. Sounds convoluted, but it's peace. Peace that God gives us somehow.

Philippians 4:6-7 says, "6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

I'm not great about the not being anxious part (haha) but thankfully God is good and caring and He does give peace.

We are facing another momentous decision this week, following what feels like half a year of momentous decisions. Praying for His guidance and peace (and trying to not be anxious!) :) By the grace of God.

Devotions with teens

So here's my tip for the day...it has been working well for our family, even with one kiddo away at college.

We are using a messaging app and going through a chapter a day in a book of the Bible. We have actually been doing the Proverb of the day, meaning that each individual reads the chapter in Proverbs that corresponds to the day of the month and then sharing one verse or passage from it that was meaningful to them. We have been using the GroupMe app on our phones, and it is a nice way to have a little accountability as well as encouragement to read the Word each day.

For December we are reading through the book of Luke.

Are we all always consistent? Nope, sorry :/ BUT we do try ... and it has really been a way to keep everyone on the same page and reading Scripture every (most every!) day.

We also use the Bible Gateway app for reading online...very helpful!

So there's my 2 cents for the day :)

Wow, I missed a couple of weeks of posting! I'm buried in mittens, getting ready for 3 more craft fairs :)

The Lord has been blessing us through sales...thank you God!!!!! :)

A Christmas Haven by Cindy and Erin Woodsmall -- my review

These days I don't really have  much time to read...and I miss that! :) I was given the opportunity to read/review a copy of a book with a Christmas-y name, A Christmas Haven,



A year ago I was reading a book by the same authors (Cindy and Erin Woodsmall) and enjoying it as well...it was The Christmas Remedy and it was quite enjoyable :) When given the opportunity to read this next installment in the series about this Amish family, I was happy to carve some time out.

In A Christmas Haven a couple of Amish families are in crisis. One family has a member who want to leave the church/community rules and restrictions; a different family in a different degree of Amish beliefs has a family crisis which seems like it cannot be overcome, short of grievous decisions.

Ivy, who lives and works on the family dairy farm, wants a more "English" career and lifestyle, focusing on party and event planning.  She feels too restricted by the Amish ways in which she was brought up and decides that the ony path to her happiness is through breaking those bonds.  Adam and Magda have a big secret of their own and feel the only option for them is to run away from their very conservative Amish community. 

These two families intersect in another sort of crisis way...and though it seems like their differences are just too big...amazing things happen!

It is hard to give a review without spoilers! Suffice it say that I really enjoyed reading this book and I would definitely recommend it! My 15 year old daughter is reading it as well, and is enjoying it too!  Even though it has a Christmas-y title, it's actually not super Christmas-themed, so don't feel bad reading it at any time of the year!

Enjoy! :)

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Super delicious meal ... Onion pie!!!

Are you looking for a new meal to try this fall? I have one for you!! It's ONION PIE!!! :) It is so delicious, goes with just about anything...it's basically a sour-cream and onion filling in a pie crust. It's very easy to make and everyone loves it!!!

I found the recipe in an old cookbook, and the whole family loves it--in the picture below I added bacon bits to it to give it a different twist--yummm.  For the recipe, please click on the post I did a couple of years ago about it! Enjoy!! :) 

Online Drawing Program by Creating a Masterpiece -- my REVIEW

My youngest daughter, who is now in 10th grade, enjoys creating art. I am not super-talented in the areas of painting/drawing, so she was thrilled to have the opportunity to use the one-year subscription to the Drawing Program by Creating a Masterpiece and I am happy to share my thoughts about the program in this review! We had used a different online product from Creating a Masterpiece in the past, so she anticipated enjoying these drawing lessons--and yes, she certinly did!

  

Maybe if you have a long memory, you might remember my previous review of an art program from Creating a Masterpiece (here). This program is similar, but different!

The Drawing Program is a series of four different levels of instruction in drawing projects, from beginner to level 3.  The instructor, Sharon Hofer, introduces the lesson (and finished product) to the students and then walks them through how they can replicate the piece of art, one step at a time. She is very smooth and pleasant to listen to, and she gives the instructions at a very do-able rate, talking as she performs the drawings/smudgings/etc. so that the student can follow her words as well as her movements.

Students may begin at any level, but for our family (with very little drawing experience!) it made sense to begin at the beginners' level. There are five different projects which you can work on, some of them are working in pencil, others are with charcoal.  

Similarly to the last time we used the Creating a Masterpiece program, our initial thought, upon viewing the artwork we were to learn to make, was along the lines of, "No way, I can't do that!"  My daughter actually was a bit intimidated, thinking that she couldn't make something like what was shown (before she started) -- but she went ahead and started out with the lessons...

Miss Sharon's clear instructions about how to create the "Hoot Owl"...

   

were followed and this amazing drawing of an owl emerged!

Another one of the beginner lessons that she completed was the "Angling for Trout." {{{Side note: my husband rasies trout for a living, so just take this into account!}}}  We were all amazed to see her make this drawing:

 You'll notice that she is working on her second version of this picture, because her first didn't have the correct dimensions of an actual trout (see side note above, haha!) so she went through the directions a second time--and she actually plans to do another time as well! (This is another great part of the program--you are not limited to only using the directions once! You can perfect your following of her instructions time and time again!)

One of the things that we like about Miss Sharon's instructions are her likeability and normal-ness.  She speaks to the student just like she is having a conversation, and like she is a friend. She is upbeat, not rushed, and very encouraging!

So...can I show off a few more of the drawings that she has made thus far? :) 

This one was in the midst of the Alaskan Wilderness drawing...

And here's the finished work of the Alaskan Wilderness (this was a Level 1 charcoal drawing).  My husband has already claimed this for his office at work. :)

This was the lesson on drawing a still life with shadowing of an egg :) 

And she's mid-way through the Level 2 project "Dawdling Duck" (I love this one, who would've imagined that my 15-year old could draw this?!)

She is completely thrilled to have access to these drawing lessons for a year, and I anticipate seeing lots of iterations of each of these drawings (or at least of her favorites). It is nice to be able to go over the same lessons (I know I said this before, but it bears repeating) as the student has become semi-comfortable to the tools and the techniques, and it's then easier to make changes.

The program itself is very easy to use. The website is very natural to navigate without frustration, and the lessons that you have purchased (have access to) are easy to find. For each lessons there is an accompanying list of materials, so you won't be surprised mid-project, and there is even a link where you could purchase the supplies if you don't already have a favorite vendor of these items.

The lessons are broken up into chunks, as well, so that if you don't have the time to devote to the entire project you can easily return later to pick up where you left off. 

All in all, we REALLY enjoy these online art lessons/online drawing program by Creating a Masterpiece. The student can learn some techniques, but I think it's more of a "finished work" creation-type program. Some of the techniques they learn can be carried over into other independent projects. I'd describe this program as more of an online "Paint and Sip" type program, easy to turn out a really nice finished product.

Here are a couple of thoughts from my 10th grade daughter who used the program these past few months: I LOVE creating a masterpiece! I am not a very artsy person, but I'm able to draw really cool and good things with this! The lessons are easy to follow along, and she is very clear about what you should do. She also says to sometimes copy her picture, but its really ok if yours looks different from hers.

Well, as you have probably inferred already, I definitely recommend the Online Drawing Program by Creating a Masterpiece!  If you'd like to read the thoughts of other families who have used this product, please check out their reviews by clicking on the link below!

Water

There's something soul-soothing about being by the water!

Thank you Lord for the blessings of a beautiful day :)

Fun Family Chess by Brain Blox -- my REVIEW!

In my family, we love to play games--card games, board games, word games (well, only some of us like those!)--for whatever reason, although my kids are now high school aged, we have never played chess with them! I don't really know why, maybe just because we didn't have a chess board...(I think I'm making excuses). The kids were thrilled that we got to review this awesome product by Brain Blox called Fun Family Chess.  

This chess set is not your usual chess set (board plus pieces) -- it has some extra parts which definitely make it easier for a beginner to learn to play! It is a very nice quality set--the wooden board folds up into a box to hold the pieces and the dice (read on!) and the instructions and the move guide; the pieces each have their own little fabric pouch to keep the colors separate.  

As soon as this set arrived, my daughter opened it right up and set it up to begin playing! The board has the diagram of the icons of the pieces right on it so that you know where the different pieces go, which is very helpful for a beginner. (If you have an eye for details, you'll notice that she set it up on the wrong sides of the board--till I noticed and shared with her what I knew--I had told her what I had learned as a child, to always match the queen's "outfit" to her square--but the way she had it set up, according to the diagram on the board it was not matching--see the pictures below :) She had just put them on the opposite sides of the playing field, I guess because she had been in a hurry to set it up and get started :) Well, it is actually quite easy to set it up correctly, just match the color of the pieces with the side of the board which has the coordinating colored pictures :) White on the outlined side, darks on the filled in side. When she realized that, it was much easier to set it up correctly and continue on!

(you'll notice on these and some other pics that she has them set up on the wrong side of the board--this was in the beginnnig of her learning...now she always sets them up on the correct side!)

Since my kids are in high school (10th and 12th grades), I basically just received the package and gave them the box to play around with and try out. I had anticipated playing it together as a family, using the methods in the kit, but my daughter beat me to it, read how to play, and before I knew it she had learned to play chess by herself--well enough that she could beat me! I mean, like within an hour or maybe slightly longer she had it figured out!

Let me tell you a little about what makes this set different--and so much less intimidating than learning to play using just a regular board/pieces. Do you see the dice (chess cube) and reference card in the picture above? Well, the way that you play this game, you roll the dice and then match the color to the reference card to see what moves you can make with which pieces.  It basically gives you a smaller number of options for your moves and shows you where you can move. Game play progresses as you each roll the die and move your pieces accordingly.  My daughter actually played both sides of the board, she just rolled and moved the accompanying colored side, taking turns--I think this is how she learned so quickly!

Check out this video which gives a little introduction to this method of learning to play chess: 

My son (12th grade) got into the act and he and my daughter have had some fun chess games...and they've both beaten me! I'm no chess pro, but I have known how to play for lots of years...well, they've obviously caught on to it!

Don't be afraid that if you learn to use this that you won't be able to play "regular" chess -- there are instructions in the instruction booklet that help you transition to regular chess--or there are also videos which Brain Blox has made that help you switch over to playing "normal" chess. 

These videos are very helpful, short, to the point, entertaining, and easy to understand/follow.  (There are actually several videos that cover how to play the game as well--if you learn more easily via video than by reading the instruction booklet, you'll be all set also!)

I really like this chess set. I think that learning to play chess might sound like an intimidating thing, but this Fun Family Chess set makes it very friendly and easy to learn :) My husband is actually thinking of trying it out, now that he has seen the kids learn it so quickly!  The way that we used it, with the kids learning it on their own, may not work for your family, especially if you have younger kids, but if you play it with them, or get them started, they ought to be able to follow right through and learn it as well as you or even better!   I definitely think this is a valuable set, it would make a great gift, too, for anyone you know! Seriously, it's not too juvenile for adults, but not too "adultish" for kids.  I'd recommend it for all ages!  

You can purchase it on their website or even on Amazon! (here's the link to their product on there). 

If you'd like to read what other reviewers thought about this great chess learning set, please click on the box below: 

Calculus!

I am gaining a new appreciation for calculus, thanks to my homeschooled senior :)

I took calculus in college a million years ago, but without having taken the pre-calc, I was pretty much confused and mystified the entire semester.

Now I have a son who wants to learn calculus...so I'm learning right alongside him!  Well, two days ahead of him haha! :) So far, so good!

I love algebra, and this seems to be falling logically right there too!  Hopefully it will continue as the schoolyear continues!

I am, however, not used to having "homework" every day, haha! I wait till he's done with his work and then take the book to use (in all of my spare time--haha!! :) just kidding, I have no spare time...but carve out times!)  Lately my "go to" time for calculus has been when I'm in the car, waiting for one or two of the kids at an activity they're attending.

Would you sit in a car with a book light, learning to do calculus for your child?! :)

****Side note--I have been using Saxon Math books for my children since they were in 4th grade, and now that I'm using one myself, I really still say that I love the Saxon method. The repetition of concepts is really what cements them into the mind.  Yay Saxon! :)

Best broccoli

I'm not a huge fan of broccoli (unless it is super fresh--i.e. we grew it in our garden) BUT that yummy broccoli salad that you've probably had at potlucks will always have me piling it on my plate!

I don't have a recipe, but have figured out how to replicate it. 

I just cut up clean (wash it!!) broccoli, about 4 cups,  mix in 1 cup of raisins,  1 large purple onion (cut into tiny pieces), and about 1/2 cup of crumbled bacon. For the dressing I make up a coleslaw-type dressing of mayonnaise (maybe 1 cup?) and sugar (1/2 cup or so) and vinegar (a little less than 1/4 cup). Whisk that all together and taste bbn it to make sure it tastes how you like it--add more of whatever ingredient you need to). Let the dressing sit for awhile to dissolve the sugar and then mix it into the salad mixture. 

Enjoy! :)

Anonymity

I'm an introvert. Yup, I definitely am.

We just moved to a large suburban area in a heavily-populated state.

We know just about no one, we have no connections or relationships; there are so many people here that I think that I could go to the grocery store one hundred times and still not be recognized by the clerk.

This level of anonymity is a bit disconcerting. I can see how people can feel alone in a crowd.

Even as an introvert this is not something desirable to me.

But--we are here for a reason, we believe that God sent us here.  So--here we stay and here we are thankful. 

Ticket to Ride

Are you looking for a fun game to play with your family? Let me tell you about one of our recent favorites--Ticket to Ride.  

This is a game that we play as a family (parents and teens) but it's equally fun with younger kids!  For instance, my kids have played it before with a 5 and 8 year old :) and enjoyed it--and this past weekend we played with my dad and all of us, so it spanned 75 years to 15 years old. Lots of fun, challenging, strategic, and fast-moving!

It's definitely kind of expensive, as games go, but I'd recommend it! It is definitely worth the price. 

Give it a try!!

Yummy hamburger addition!

We tried something new with our hamburgers last weekend! 

Right now we are in an apartment, looking for a house, so we are not able to use our grill. We are just using a tabletop George Foreman-type grill...but I think this would work on a regular grill as well!

We love hamburgers, but I think I've found a new way to prepare them!   Smush onions into it and then grill!!

Here's what we did:

1. Slice up onions into thick slices

2.  Press onion slices into hamburger patty and sprinkle on salt and pepper.

3.  Grill as usual.

4.  Eat and enjoy the DELICIOUS onion flavor which is added into the burger! :)

Easy Grammar Ultimate Series: Grade 11 (and accompanying tests) -- my REVIEW

We have done some heavy-duty grammar programs over the years, and now that my kids are in high school, I do not want to let that slip away, though I also do not feel it is super-necessary to learn/drill at the same level that they have done in younger grades. We have used Easy Grammar Systems products in the past, and I was happy to get to use and write a review on the Easy Grammar Ultimate Series: Grade 11.

My daughter is actually in tenth grade, but it is no problem absolutely for her to be using the 11th grade book.  The way that this Ultimate series is set up is there is a "Teacher Edition," which is actually just the masters for each lesson (in the first part of the book) followed by a section of the answers. If you are using this in a classroom or larger group you may want to photocopy them, but for our homeschool use, we just use this one book as the student book--she writes in the pages of the book and then I can use the keys in the back to check her work and help her with corrections.  

The book is set up in a series of 180 days, one on each page. In our case I have my daughter read the rules to herself to refresh/remind her of them and to then do the folowing exercises. If it is a new or confusing topic, she often asks me for clarification.  Usually the rules/topics covered are things she has learned in the past and is now just being reminded of. The exercises give her practice in utilizing the rules in the correct manner.

Each lesson/day is only one page, it is easy to complete, and it works well for us to do one page per day. Not a  huge time commitment, but great practice with grammar rules. No forgetting allowed here!! :)  (we hope!)

After every ten days, there is an "assessment" which you may choose to give your student, to see how they are progressing or to highlight any points which need clarification.  The test book is a separate book, and it is laid out with the test on one side of the open book and the answers on the other side of the book.  You may choose to tear out the pages, so that your student is not tempted to look at the answer side while they are completing the test, or (as we do) just fold it over halfway and trust your student (or watch them, haha!) to not check the answers.  The format makes it really easy for the parent/teacher to correct and grade the student's work.

We really like this system of learning/reviewing for the high school years. I have and will continue to recommend the Easy Grammar Ultimate Series for this purpose. I DO believe that correct grammar is ultra-important (we have these talks once in awhile with my teens...especially when they balk at doing their grammar, haha!) Whether it is right or not, having poor grammar will reflect itself in people's impressions of you...and it's a shame for someone to be underestimated or undervalued simply because they are using improper grammar...but it happens.  A grammar-heavy elementary school program shouldn't be scrapped as soon as high school begins--these reminders are very important for their speaking as well as writing.  I think that the once-a-day, short lesson approach of Easy Grammar Ultimate Series: Grade 11  is a great way to ensure that your student isn't forgetting important points of grammar.

I definitely recommend this product from Easy Grammar. It is very reasonable priced, as well, so that's a plus too :) If you'd like to read some thoughts by others who used this product or another level (or the Daily Grams -- I like that too!)  please click on the banner below and then read others' reviews!