Homeschooling high school

We have been homeschooling our kids since they were in 5th, 3rd, and 1st grades (in 2010). We basically jumped right into it when we moved to a state which didn't have a Christian school nearby. We knew before our kids were school-aged that we did not want to send them to a public school. When our oldest started kindergarten, she went to a Christian school that was associated with our church. We loved that school! The teachers love Christ and the students are taught the subjects from a Christian perspective (and with excellent academics!)

In 2010 we moved to our current location and there was not a Christian school anywhere nearby, so we were forced to quickly decide what to do. I had always been of the mindset, "Homeschooling is great, but I will never homeschool my kids!" (as a matter of fact, I had made that assertion before!) Well--having decided to not send them to public school--and having no Christian school around--we plunged (unenthusiastically!) into homeschooling. Quickly we learned to enjoy the freedom we had throughout the school day/year and we really all enjoyed it! We were able to do multiple subjects together with all three kids (history, science, Bible) and we were a part of a great homeschool co-op which provided "fun" extras. As the years progressed, we really have loved homeschooling, spending so much time together as a family, sharing our time and values as a family. We have also had the opportunity to teach our children from a Biblical perspective. AND we had lots of friends who were homeschooling also.

Fast forward to today...now I have 3 teenagers -- one is in 12th grade, one is in 10th grade, and one is in 8th grade. We are still homeschooling. The kids' subjects are more difficult, their school days are longer, not so much "together" learning... Most of our former homeschooling friends have sent their kids to the public school, folks who were homeschooling for religious as well as non-religious reasons have sent their kids to school--so many, in fact, that my kids are now kind of really the isolated ones--the only ones they know nearby of their ages who are still homeschooled. So why are we still homeschooling? Well, for the same reasons. We wanted our kids to have an academically challenging excellent education with Christ at the center. Some people say we're too protective. Well, fine, if that's how you see it, I'm okay with that :) . We are able to share character lessons with our kids at each turn and keep them away from swearing all day and drugs/alcohol, and more.

Is it easy? No :) Does anyone want to hear about our "fun activities" -- no (not so many cutesy projects any more!) Are we still doing it? YES! Friends ask how we decide to still homeschool, as their kids are telling them they want to go to school. My answer is that we made a commitment years ago and it's just not an option. We want to be the ones to guide their education, not the state. We are following what God has laid on our hearts and He will bless us.

**I will say that although our kids are not going to public school, per se, our oldest one is dual-enrolled at the Community College. Is this going against our conviction? No, we don't believe so. We work with her to choose appropriate courses that will prepare her for her chosen college next year, and the social influences and pressures that are present at a public high school are really not there in the community college, she is in classes with students from 60 years old to 16 years old, and has class sizes of about 10 students.

So--just my thoughts. Homeschooling high school can be a lonely, tough time. It is not easy :) but our relationships have definitely benefitted and we have so many opportunities to soak our kids in Gospel truth. And when I say lonely, PLEASE don't jump on the "not enough social interactions" bandwagon :) My kids still have what I might consider too many social interactions ;) -- robotics teams, 4-H, cyberpatriot team, youth group, ballroom lessons, art class, music classes, fiber group, and much much more! I think the "lonely" is for me, but it's just a phase. One I am privileged to participate in. :)

So--here we are, still plugging along, following what God has asked of us--and relying on Him, and thankful for His care and sustaining of us.

Why did I write this? Who knows!?! Just a thought in my mind :)

Anyone else out there homeschooling high schoolers?

Robotics season is here again! :)

Well, we are one week away from our robotics competition! So, so busy...here are some pics for any robot fans out there! :)

If you're interested in having your child on a robotics team--finding one or starting one (it's do-able, ask me!) -- check out firstinspires.org.

Standardized Tests (ACT/SAT)

How does your homeschool plan incorporate college-entrance type tests like the SAT and ACT? When do you start having students take them?

For our children, we start with the PSAT in 10th grade (to kind of get used to taking a standardized test) and also we have them take the SAT in the spring of 10th grade, as a kind of freebie, no prep, no stress (other than having to find their way around the school, figure out how to fill in the answer circles, etc).  We'll see how that works for my second child!

For my first child, it worked great, she scored a nice score on that 10th grade SAT, and then when it came time to take the SAT in 11th grade, there was not as much pressure as she had already received a pretty good score. With more math under her belt she easily scored a little bit higher.  She also took the ACT and loved it, thought it was easier (for her) and scored a really nice score as well. She is taking it again today, trying to up her score by 1 point so that she can qualify for $2000 more a year in scholarship money.

My second will be taking his first SAT this spring, we'll see how this method works for him!

As far as prep goes, we didn't do any SAT or ACT prep with any of them (other than regular homeschooling of course!) and so far so good.

How about you?  I'd love to hear what other homeschoolers do for these tests...do you do prep? When do you have your students take them? Other insights? Thanks for sharing!

Hearts Entwined by Karen Witemeyer, Mary Connealy, Regina Jennings, and Melissa Jagears -- my REVIEW

Hearts Entwined is a collection of "novellas" (aka short-ish story/books --they're not really short stories, but not full books either!) by four different authors.  The book is labelled as "A Historical Romance Novella Collection." Each novella is written by a different author, most of whom I've read their material before.  The "theme," if there is one, is that they have something about thread/knots/string within the pages (at least three of them do, I can't remember if "Bound and Determined" did.

The first story, The Love Knot is about a woman who receives a huge surprise and also is given the opportunity to rekindle a lost romance.

The second, The Tangled Ties That Bind features Maggie, an aspiring doctor, and Connor, an aspiring husband.

The third, Bound and Determined, follows a soldier who is on a strange mission to accompany a retiree, his fleet of camels, and his daughter across Indian territory.

The fourth, Tied and True, is about a woman who wants to marry a man, that man thinks he is beneath her and refuses to marry her, so she takes extreme measures to make him agree with her.

The four novellas make up a regular-sized book. They are not very long, and if you are looking for something short, you might like these.  For my taste, they were a bit short to really develop characters or the story as fully as I might have hoped. I actually found the book quite dull--basically just short romance stories of wooing or being wooed. Not exactly my cup of tea.  Each was different, set in a different era of history, in a different locale, but just not what I like to read. There was a teeny bit of adventure sprinkled throughout, but just pretty much basically quick romances. Maybe that's what you like, and you'll like these stories!  They are "clean" and not filled with objectionable language or material, and that is a good thing.

So basically, not my favorite, I probably wouldn't have finished it had I not committed to review it, but nothing objectionable.

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Does the whole family have to get sick?

So often when one member of our family gets sick, the rest will follow shortly. This is pretty frustrating, right??

My husband is recovering from brain surgery and two of my kids are sick with stomach bugs!! :/

      

So...as of now, one end of the hall is healthy but recovering from surgery, the other end of the hall is fighting the stomach bug. (and the other daughter hasn't come home from work yet...praying that she's healthy!)

Any tips for keeping the germs to one side of our small house? :) (aside from washing washing washing hands and sanitizing everything I can!)

Prayer. That's what it is, I guess. God is sovereign, He is in control, He will get us through this!

Suggestions welcome, though!! :)

Quick breakfast for hospital waiting :)

Tip for the day:  instead of buying something pricey to eat when you're waiting for someone in surgery or some procedure, take a packet of instant oatmeal and a spoon with you! Most of those places offer you free coffee or tea--just get the hot water you'd use for tea and mix your oatmeal in!  Hot and tasty food that'll fill you up and give you some energy (and save you money!)

Trust

You know what's important about trust? Having something/someone to put your trust in! Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds and commands us to, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths."